[ She thinks through the details she has before responding. Peter, maybe climbing the walls. Introducing the boyfriend to the not-not-boyfriend and his partners. Fairly volatile ingredients, all in all. ]
i guess i'll skip asking if everything's okay. what happened?
i’m sorry to hear that — both for you and for greer.
[ Which is maybe the most she can say, when she doesn’t have the full picture — when her kneejerk instinct is unkind. An open relationship is what men say they want when they want to fuck around, but still want to come home to find you waiting. ]
do you know what caused it? or if it’s happened before? maybe it’s not the open-ness that’s the problem.
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i guess i'll skip asking if everything's okay.
what happened?
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And I guess I was looking to the three of them as—proof that open relationships can work?
So now I don’t really know what to think. Other than that I feel for Greer, in the middle of all this.
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[ Which is maybe the most she can say, when she doesn’t have the full picture — when her kneejerk instinct is unkind. An open relationship is what men say they want when they want to fuck around, but still want to come home to find you waiting. ]
do you know what caused it? or if it’s happened before?
maybe it’s not the open-ness that’s the problem.
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They had a big fight in the bedroom that I tried not to listen to.
[ But you don’t have to make out every word to hear how much someone hurts. ]
Peter and I have broken up a few times. We were really
on-again off-again is a nice way of putting it, probably.
So I shouldn’t judge. But it’s hard to watch, especially in close quarters.
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i’m sorry you’re having to deal with the fallout.
these things happen, even when relationships aren’t flexible in that way.
are things with you and ash okay, at least?